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Letter to a Christian Nation by Sam Harris

In Nonfiction, Religious Studies on January 21, 2010 at 12:06 pm
Letter to a Christian Nation by Sam Harris

Letter to a Christian Nation by Sam Harris

Title: Letter to a Christian Nation

Author: Sam Harris

Genre: Nonfiction/Atheism/Religion/Christianity

Rating: ****/****

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I read this last year, but was tempted to read it again after seeing it in my e-book folder yesterday.  I read it in one sitting, because Harris’s words ring so true to me as an atheist & because it’s rather short.  As such, it’s a book that I wish more Christians & religious people would read, with an open mind of course,  & evaluate its arguments.  Harris is basically making the case that religion is irrational & even in its mildest form helps to spread dissension & cause needless suffering to others.  Why is it that we accept that religion need be a part of our lives?  That we should tolerate it being forced upon society?

One argument that is often made is that society as a whole needs religion to keep us from destroying civilization itself.  As we can see in the US, the most religious states ‘red’ tend to be heavy in crime, but in the more secular blue states we see a drop in crime by comparison.  According to many Christians (et al.), atheists are supposed to be completely immoral, evil people, yet evidence shows that there is a correlation between high rates of secularism & a higher standard of living.

Though it is offensive to some people to even question the importance of religion, it is a stunning example of religion’s tyrannical hold on people, that most overlook.  All of our other beliefs e.g. environmental, political, etc. are questioned & we are expected to give reason for why we believe the way we do about them, but religion has an exemption.  Because faith has been made into a virtue & honestly, no evidence has been collected in religion’s favor, that we’ve neglected or been forced away from criticizing it or holding it to the same standards that other systems of beliefs endure.

PS: For a laugh, read the one star ‘reviews’ on Amazon.com

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http://www.samharris.org/

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Purity, not just a pastime!

In Feminism, Nonfiction on January 4, 2010 at 1:20 pm
The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti

The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti

Title: The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession with Virginity Is Hurting Young Women

Author: Jessica Valenti

Genre: Nonfiction/Feminism/Virginity/Sex education

Rating: ****/****

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Having been vaguely familiar with Jessica Valenti’s work at Feministing, I was eagerly looking forward to her study on the American obsession with virginity & how it affects those of who are deemed pure & impure.  For a laugh, I recommend you read the lowest starred Amazon reviews, for a lesson in how to blatantly misunderstand an author’s thesis.  At no point does Valenti discourage those who want to wait for marriage in their attempt to remain pure, rather she attacks the dichotomy that a woman is either a docile, passive virgin or a woman of ill-repute, damaged goods.

Also, Valenti exposed the virginity movement (AKA abstinence movement) for what it really is: a movement to create submissive women who support traditional gender roles e.g. the man is in charge & his wife is his property & more disturbingly, but equally true, is how the movement sexualizes teen girls.  Why are the girls always the targets?  Why must their sexuality  be kept in check while the boys are left to roam free & sew their wild oats without repercussion?  As one parent answered in an Amazon ‘review’ of another of Valenti’s books (which I hope to read & review soon): her daughter could be taught integrity through not being sexually active, while her son could be taught integrity in other manners.  So, as I must crudely state it: her daughter’s integrity lies between her legs.

Isn’t that a disturbing lesson to teach young women & to level against all women as whole?

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Check out a great feminist site: http://www.feministing.com for more information about this book & Jessica Valenti.

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Valenti included a set of questions at the back which I think would be relevant to discuss with your friends/family:

1. How do you define virginity?  Where do you think this definition came from (e.g. society, parents, friends)?

– I define virginity as being without experience in sexual acts (of any sort) which involve another person.  I arrived at this definition when realizing that the mainstream definition of virginity is really only applied to straight women.  The mainstream definition was told to me many times through society & friends without a thought for anybody outside its parameters.

2. How do you think the ethics of passivity affected your life, or how do you see it play out around you?

– I saw how mothers would tell their daughters to act in a certain way, usually an attempt to control their behavior, lest someone think they were loose & wild, but their male children were not encouraged to control themselves.  I’ve seen it induce a lot of shame into people for not acting the ‘right’ way, or being frustrated at failing to perceive the reason why they should have to conform & constrict their activities when males clearly are not obligated to a similar moral code.

3. What values–other than “purity”–should we be instilling in young women to ensure that they grow up to be active moral agents?

– I would say that compassion for all people need to be expressed to girls, solidarity, loyalty, & hardwork, so they can achieve all they want to without having to harm another person to reach their goals.  As this patriarchal society likes to teach girls to compete with each other over men, rarely do all women who are even close friends, feel that they are accomplished when they lack what another friend has, usually in the form of a romantic attachment & status symbol that a male partner  can bring to their lives.  Women would feel good about themselves for doing their best, rather than believing what they have isn’t good enough since they have not received a man’s approval & they would not have to feign ignorance or ignore their interests/goals in case a man may be intimidated.

4. Were you brought up to think of female sexuality as somehow dirty? How did it affect you?

– I would say yes, in the sense that girls would be tainted if they had sex or if anybody found out. I was brought up to believe that men were liars who would bed multiple women, leave them, & then, no one would want to marry these fallen women.  Even though I do not believe this or think it is true in many circumstances, I still have doubts that men can be entirely trustworthy.  They’ve dominated this arena for far too long & it still brings many women down, some even are killed over the matter.  Until I stop hearing ‘bitch”, “ho”, “slut”, etc. leveled at women, I won’t be changing my mind.

She included more questions, but I don’t think it polite to post them all here. If you are interested in purchasing her book, here is a link to order it from her official site:

http://jessicavalenti.com/?page_id=38